The Myth of "More": Why Reaching the Top Feels Empty

Aug 1, 2021    Jeremy Haroldson

Solomon had it all—money, power, pleasure—and called it "meaningless." [cite_start]Discover why chasing success is like chasing smoke, and what actually solidifies a life. [cite: 2]

About This Reality Check

Ecclesiastes is often called the most depressing book in the Bible. Jeremy Haroldson argues it is actually the most liberating. Why? [cite_start]Because it gives you permission to stop playing a game you cannot win. [cite: 5, 6]

Written by King Solomon at the end of his life, this book is a memoir of a man who tried everything—unlimited wealth, unbridled pleasure, supreme power—and concluded it was all "Hevel" (vapor). [cite_start]If you are exhausted from the hustle, feeling empty despite your achievements, or wondering "is this all there is?", this teaching offers a hard reset for your priorities. [cite: 7]




Core Insights: Navigating the Vapor 🎯


1. The Trap of "Hevel" (Chasing Smoke)


Jeremy unpacks the key Hebrew word of the book: Hevel. [cite_start]It is translated as "vanity" or "meaningless," but literally means "vapor" or "breath." [cite: 9, 10]

"Trying to find meaning in achievements or possessions is like trying to grasp smoke." It looks solid from a distance. You run toward it, grab it, and open your hand to find nothing there. Solomon warns us: You can spend your whole life chasing the wind, but you can never catch it. [cite_start]The sooner you realize that external success cannot fill an internal void, the sooner you can be free. [cite: 11, 12, 13]


2. The Futility of Accumulation


We work hard to build wealth and status. [cite_start]Solomon asks a brutal question: "What does a man gain by all the toil at which he toils under the sun?" [cite: 14, 15]

Jeremy points out the absurdity of the accumulation game: You work 60 hours a week to build a fortune, then you die, and you leave it to someone who didn't earn it (and might waste it). If your life is defined by what you get, it ends in zero. [cite_start]Meaning is found only in what you give and who you become. [cite: 16, 17]


3. Generational Amnesia


We all want to leave a legacy. We want to be remembered. [cite_start]Solomon bursts this bubble: "There is no remembrance of former things." [cite: 18, 19]

Jeremy challenges the ego: "Who was the richest man 100 years ago? Nobody knows." We have forgotten the kings and typhoons of the past; we will be forgotten too. This isn't meant to depress you; it is meant to liberate you from the pressure of performing for history. [cite_start]You are free to live for an Audience of One. [cite: 20, 21, 22]


4. The Conclusion: Fear God, Keep Commandments


So, if money, power, and fame are vapor, what is solid? [cite_start]Solomon concludes: "Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man." [cite: 23, 24]

In modern terms: Align with the Architect. Follow the design specs of humanity. When you center your life on connection with the Creator rather than consumption of creation, the "vapor" settles. [cite_start]You can enjoy a good meal, a good job, and a good family properly—not as gods that must satisfy you, but as gifts to be enjoyed. [cite: 25, 26]




The Bottom Line: Enjoy the Ride 💡


Ecclesiastes teaches us to hold life loosely. Don't squeeze your job or your bank account, expecting it to give you a soul. [cite_start]It can't. [cite: 27, 28, 29]

Instead, realize that life "under the sun" is temporary. Stop looking for ultimate satisfaction in temporary things. [cite_start]Anchor your soul in the Eternal [God], and you will finally be free to enjoy the temporary blessings without being enslaved by them. [cite: 30]




Who This Message is For:


Perfect for:

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  • Successful Professionals — Those who have "made it" but still feel empty. [cite: 32]
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  • Workaholics — A wake-up call about the limits of toil and career. [cite: 32]
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  • Young Visionaries — Learn from the end of Solomon's life so you don't waste the beginning of yours. [cite: 32]
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  • Minimalists — Find the spiritual philosophy that underpins the rejection of materialism. [cite: 33]



Frequently Asked Questions ❓


Is Ecclesiastes a pessimistic book?


It is realistic, not pessimistic. It strips away illusions. Pessimism says "nothing matters." Ecclesiastes says "earthly things don't matter ultimatey." [cite_start]This distinction allows us to enjoy life for what it is (a temporary gift) rather than despairing over what it isn't (a permanent god). [cite: 35, 36, 37]


What does "under the sun" mean?


It is Solomon's phrase for life lived without a connection to the divine—the purely horizontal, material existence. Life "under the sun" is indeed meaningless. [cite_start]Meaning comes from breaking through the ceiling and connecting with what is "above the sun." [cite: 38, 39]


How can I find joy if everything is "vapor"?


By shifting your expectation. When you stop demanding that your job or spouse satisfy your deepest soul needs, you take the pressure off. [cite_start]You can enjoy a sunset or a meal simply for the pleasure of it, thanking the Giver, without needing it to define your existence. [cite: 40, 41, 42]


Key Scripture Reference: Ecclesiastes 1:2, 12:13


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"Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity... The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man." [cite: 43]