The Esther Mandate: Spending Your Privilege to Rescue Others

Nov 7, 2020    Dubb Alexander    Kingdom Conference

You were not given access to the palace for your own comfort. Discover how to leverage your influence, navigate high-stakes environments, and dismantle systems of destruction.

About This Leadership Masterclass

We often view the story of Esther as a fairy tale—a peasant girl becomes queen. Dubb Alexander re-frames it as a political thriller and a masterclass in high-stakes leadership.

Esther wasn't just a beauty queen; she was a strategic operative placed in the highest office of the land to dismantle a genocidal law. This teaching challenges leaders who have achieved success and comfort to ask the terrifying question: "Did I get here just to be safe, or was I positioned here to spend my capital on saving others?"




Core Insights: What You'll Discover 🎯


1. The Purpose of Privilege


Dubb confronts the modern guilt surrounding privilege with a powerful redefinition: "Privilege is not a sin; hoarding it is."

If you have access, wealth, or status, you shouldn't apologize for it. You should spend it. Esther's crisis came when she tried to stay safe in the palace while her people faced destruction. Mordecai’s rebuke is the core principle: "Do not think that in the king's palace you will escape any more than all the other Jews." Your position is not a shelter; it is a platform.


2. Strategy is Spiritual: The Two Banquets


Why didn't Esther ask the King to save her people immediately? Why the delay? Because "Strategy is the stewardship of timing."

Esther understood that access does not equal influence. She had to build relational equity before she made a withdrawal. She threw two banquets to assess the atmosphere and prepare the King's heart. Dubb teaches that impulsive leaders lose their heads; strategic leaders (Esthers) wait for the precise moment when their voice will carry maximum weight.


3. The Mordecai Connection: Truth from the Outside


Every Esther in the palace needs a Mordecai at the gate. Why? "Because the palace insulates you from reality."

When you reach a certain level of success, people stop telling you the truth. You lose touch with the pain on the ground. Mordecai was the one who sent word to Esther: "This is what is actually happening. People are dying." Leaders must maintain connection with truth-tellers who are not impressed by their title and will disrupt their comfort.


4. Dismantling the "Haman" System


Haman represents systemic oppression embedded in law and culture. You cannot simply "wish" these systems away. They must be confronted legally and strategically.

Esther didn't just ask for Haman to be fired; she exposed the nature of his decree. She used the King's own laws to counteract the destruction. The lesson: Effective reform requires understanding the system better than the oppressor does.




The Bottom Line: Risk Your Position 💡


The defining moment of Esther's life was the decision: "If I perish, I perish." She realized that preserving her position was less important than fulfilling her purpose.

If you are a leader in business, government, or education, you have "entered the palace." The question is, will you protect your tenure, or will you risk your reputation to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves? You were made for such a time as this—not to be safe, but to be dangerous to the darkness.




Who This Message is For:


Perfect for:

  • High-Level Executives & Officials — Learn how to steward influence without losing your soul to the "palace."
  • Women in Leadership — Discover the Esther strategy of navigating male-dominated power structures with wisdom and authority.
  • Social Justice Advocates — Understand the balance between "gate activism" (Mordecai) and "palace strategy" (Esther).
  • Mentors — Learn the role of Mordecai: how to push the next generation into their destiny.



Frequently Asked Questions ❓


What is the difference between Mordecai and Esther's roles?

Mordecai represents external agitation—he creates public awareness and speaks truth from the "gate" (the community). Esther represents internal influence—she operates within the halls of power to effect legislative change. Successful movements require both: the protestor and the politician.


Why is "waiting" considered a strategy here?

Because timing determines reception. Esther waited through two banquets not because she was afraid, but because she was astute. She needed the King to be in a posture of favor before she presented a problem of crisis. Strategic patience prevents premature rejection.


How do I know if I am "hoarding privilege"?

Ask yourself: "Am I using my access to protect my comfort, or to empower others?" If your position only benefits you and your immediate circle, you are hoarding. If you are using your political or social capital to open doors for the marginalized, you are spending it.


Key Scripture Reference: Esther 4:14

"For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father's house will perish. And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?"